50 SHADES OF TRASH

Here is a warning that should be heeded on Fifty Shades of Trash.  I have all kinds of advice I could give on bedroom activities.  I am an engineer - and I believe in iterative processes in every thing I do that is repetitive.  I never get bored with the same commute into work, because the directing of the car around each corner and road can be optimized until you do it nearly perfectly for the 1000th time, matching machine and road conditions until you reach a pinnacle of perfection.  A woman is an incredibly complex "machine" - one that could keep an inquisitive man completely up to his eyeballs in mystery for the rest of possibly eternity.  Men, on the other hand, are very simple creatures to understand and "tame".

So, for many couples, boredom becomes a serious problem in the "divorce danger zone" of falling male testosterone levels, combined with peaking female sexual desire in the early to mid-40's just prior to menopause - which can cause men serious pause.....  In this malaise that many fall into, they seek out increasingly bizarre sexual practices that can often lead to adultery and worse.  I already blogged on the problem with wife-swapping in Draper, UT - which will soon become Lake Draper.....
This movie attempts to distort a normal sexual relationship.  Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise did some kind of sexual thriller about this kind of thing which included orgiastic parties (partner swapping) and at that point (forensically analyzing their relationship in retrospect), the writing was on the wall in their off-screen relationship.  After the whole partner swapping thing no longer provided the "high" that they sought, Tom Cruise sought out homosexual relationships - and he then went through several "show relationships" where the women were simply there to quell the rumors.  John TRevolta did the same thing and is now a raging flamer.  He followed the standard protocol for the regression.  Men that could have any woman that they wanted - but ended up tightly bound in the d'evil's agenda of homosexuality.  The devil will never enjoy the comfort of a woman - and he is insanely angry at those of his spiritual siblings who attained flesh and who have balanced relationships that are healthy and lead to children, continuing of the seed and eternal joy - as God has planned for his offspring who aspire to return to the highest degree of glory in God's presence.  God creates, the d'evil imitates (and quite poorly - I might add).

So, 50 Shades of Trash will lead many down a path that will lead to physical, emotional and mental  destruction.  I thought this psychologist put it quite well:

A Psychiatrist’s Letter to Young People about Fifty Shades of Grey

Article taken from Miriam Grossman MD

February 11, 2015



There’s nothing gray about Fifty Shades of Grey. It’s all black.

Let me explain.

I help people who are broken inside. Unlike doctors who use x-rays or blood tests to determine why someone’s in pain, the wounds that interest me are hidden. I ask questions, and listen carefully to the answers. That’s how I discover why the person in front of me is “bleeding”.

Years of careful listening have taught me a lot. One thing I’ve learned is that young people are utterly confused about love – finding it and keeping it. They make poor choices, and end up in lots of pain.

I don’t want you to suffer like the people I see in my office, so I’m warning you about a new movie called Fifty Shades of Grey. Even if you don’t see the film, its toxic message is seeping into our culture, and could plant dangerous ideas in your head.

Fifty Shades of Grey is being released for Valentine’s Day, so you’ll think it’s a romance, but don’t fall for it. The movie is actually about a sick, dangerous relationship filled with physical and emotional abuse. It seems glamorous, because the actors are gorgeous, have expensive cars and planes, and Beyonce is singing. You might conclude that Christian and Ana are cool, and that their relationship is acceptable.

Don’t allow yourself to be manipulated! The people behind the movie just want your money; they have no concern whatsoever about you and your dreams.

Abuse is not glamorous or cool. It is never OK, under any circumstances.

This is what you need to know about Fifty Shades of Grey: as a child, Christian Grey was terribly neglected. He is confused about love because he never experienced the real thing. In his mind, love is tangled up with bad feelings like pain and embarrassment. Christian enjoys hurting women in bizarre ways. Anastasia is an immature girl who falls for Christian’s looks and wealth, and foolishly goes along with his desires.

In the real world, this story would end badly, with Christian in jail, and Ana in a shelter – or morgue. Or Christian would continue beating Ana, and she’d stay and suffer. Either way, their lives would most definitely not be a fairy tale. Trust me on this one.

As a doctor, I’m urging you: DON’T see Fifty Shades of Grey. Get informed, learn the facts, and explain to your friends why they shouldn’t see it either.

Here are a few of the dangerous ideas promoted by Fifty Shades of Grey:

1. Girls want guys like Christian who order them around and get rough.

No! A psychologically healthy woman avoids pain. She wants to feel safe, respected and cared for by a man she can trust. She dreams about wedding gowns, not handcuffs.

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